at some point in ur life(can b more than once i think) u'll realize all u've got is urself n only god as a helping hand.u know that what u r facing will only affect u n ur future not others around u who offer for help or their sympathy or their shoulder to cry on - as if we'll lean on their shoulder anyway(uish a bit harsh haha) but the point is believe it or not this is the only way to get ur life back on track.whatever happened leading to this state n u somehow been living in a comfort zone(u believed u were anyway that's y u keep on living like that) till one day smthg shattered that comfort zone n u r once again back in reality n then all ur plan before u were introduced into that comfort zone came back b4 ur very eyes n u heard urself said u were glad that this thing happened n help to put ur feet back on the ground bcos if not only god knows what other damaged can u cause to urself-get what i mean???ke tak phm tak pe la kalo tak phm :p hahahah.